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How can I help you?
Whether you are a couple seeking to restore connectedness, communication and intimacy in your relationship, or a couple struggling through pitfalls in your sex life or lack thereof – I can help. You are not alone! READ MORE HERE
Perhaps you have been haunted by a secret for many years – of being abused sexually or emotionally during childhood. You may have had a major accident and find yourself having flashbacks leading to anxiety. If you feel you are being held captive by these hurts – reach out, let’s work through it together. READ MORE HERE
Sometimes we just need someone to come alongside us and show us new ways and tools to identify our blindspots and make big decisions. I can help.
NBI Brain Profile Tests explain why some patterns in thought and behaviour or career compatibility in yourself and your partner due to your brain preferences.
Are you in need of Marriage Counselling?
Couples often have a hard time communicating. You may find you and your partner completely misunderstand one another CONSTANTLY.
One or both of the partners might feel that their needs are not being met emotionally, mentally or physically. If this is how you feel, I can introduce the tools you need to effectively communicate and be heard for once. The couples counselling I offer brings a new way of connecting with your partner.
Many relationships become stagnant and find that their sex life-habits bring contention and hurt. Whether you have sex twice a year or twice a week – sexual hurts run deep and can come a long way. Sex therapy is a key to understanding one’s own fears regarding sex and intimacy. It also can highlight why we form certain unhelpful habits in our sex lives. How can we connect once again to the joyful sexual experiences we had with our spouse before? Let’s talk and find out together!
What you can expect to be helped with:
– Imago relationship approach
– Communication; love connection
– Stagnant relationships
– Needs and wants
– Emotional and sexual reconnection
Have you experienced abuse or trauma in your past?
You may feel as though you are carrying around a deep and dark secret. It could be the case if you were sexually abused in some way as a child. The statistics say that 1 in every 9 girls and 1 in every 53 boys experience sexual abuse before the age of 18. This may be under-estimated as many keep it as a deeply buried secret. Only 310 out of 1000 cases of sexual assault are ever reported.
The results in adults that have experienced childhood sexual abuse are vast: addictive habits (drugs; alcohol; sex; porn; food), PTSD, depressive episodes, low self-esteem; suicidal thoughts, lack of ambition.
We can also have a normal, happy life even when we are walking around with this secret, but in some way, the hurt will hold us back and pull us down.
Trauma in any form can affect our nervous system. Our minds take us back to the moment of trauma and we have the same physical symptoms – sweaty palms, racing heart, withdrawal.
When we take out this trauma ‘root’ then the symptoms or ‘fruit’ can be dealt with so much faster.
Individual therapy
Often we just need someone to give us an outside perspective on why we seem to be stuck and not growing in certain areas.
Our society is built on individuals walking alone and trying to figure out life alone. I am here to help and walk alongside you to make decisions, get out of the hole and grow into your identity in Christ.
